Friday, January 14, 2011

Being a student

I'm so getting old for schooling! I'm studding for my Ohio State Bar Ass. It has been easy and I get to set my time up soon for my test. I get to take 2 of them at different times.

Back home laws are so different to Ohio. I have lived in a couple of states and I never taken the state bar there. I found some work to do at home or in the office part time because I wanted to spend
as much time with the children as I could.

Now I'm on my own and working in the home and I love it!! I just need to make sure I can
make it on my own,and to show the children I'm a strong Mom.

I do make half way decent money and I love my job! I just need something to fall back on.

I get help from my ex with child support,and that is it!! I didn't want any thing else!!

Just to show everyone and myself that I can do it on my own.
I want to show my girls that they can do it on there own also.

That it's very important to be strong and not have to relay on a man/guy!

I know this is wrong but I want my girls to be able to handle
things on there own before they get in a relation ship.

But any how I'm getting excited about this and it makes me feel
great about my self!!

I will update as I go.
~NACY~

Tuesday, January 11, 2011

My meeting with home school parents/kids

I took my daughter to a home school/church place where we live at to see how parents/kids felt about
being home school to going to public school.

This was a nice time to set and lesson to ever ones feelings on this.

My daughter ask the basic of home school rules and how they pick there studies.
How you go about taken kids/children out of school and what all you need to do
with the school board office.

They told us that we had to fill out paper work with the school board and another office of the county
and they would give the paper work to the right people to make sure you can home school.

You also don't have to hold a high school diploma or GED to home school any more.
A parent that don't have either one can take classes with there children and then take
a test to get there GED for free if they pass the test.

You can pick your material from the school for your work or you can make your own as long
as it's approved with the school program they are  teaching in the area.

Then at the end of school you take test to make sure you are staying in the right grad and if
you have moved up to another or not. You can also take as many grads in a yr you like.
As long as you get the basic of that grad and the one after.

You also have to take the state test that is given to the schools to make sure you test out and to get you score for collage prep.

Most of the children like home schooling for the most part,they say it's a challenge to make friends when you don't do sport or anything else that public school has.

So that is why some home schooling parent put together sport programs or letting  the kids/children go to public school  so they can do sports and other things that school offers.

I talked to some of the parents about why they home school and there where plenty of reason for them all.

Some have children with learning issuses and the school will not help the child out or the schools don't have to funding or staff for those needs.

Some say for bulling issuse.

Some don't like how the school handlies disaplineing children and thank that they go over board or don't care at all.

Some fill that they will be more parents that will take there kids out of school due to bulling and not any programs to help those that have learning issuse.

I for one can under stand there points and understand how schools over look things and then not
do anything to others and so one. I have seen it as a child and now that I have 8 kids my self
understand how parents can home school and feel happy about it.

I also understand that if the parent can't keep on track with home schooling how it can hurt the children later in life. Some of the parents have said that when they started it was a challenge at
first and how they them self had to get there own life in order to stick with it.

They thought as the child got older they could do things on there own and how they only need to set the plains up and the child would do it with out problems.

They said it was a let down on there kids because they couldn't take time out to set and help them learn the right way. So many of them now have a place in there home just fo schooling and
they make sure there in the room with them to make sure things get done and to talk everything over
with them to make sure they understood the leason.

Most of them are stay at home mom's that don't work from home. Some have tryed it and said it was much easyer to just be a mother and a teacher to there children then to try and be a
mom,teacher,wife,and hold down a job.

They know money is tight but they are happy with what they have choosen and if for any reason
they fill that they are falling there children then they will put then back in publice school so they
can get the right teaching and learning they need.

My heart goes out to those that can do this. It's not a easy job to teach your children at home and to make sure your doing it all right.

I will talk to my kids and see what they thank. I know they would like to home school and go to publice school so they can be with there friends and play sports and attend programs the school has.

This was a nice visit and I will be doing it again,I have meet some realy nice parents and it's open for the public to come and visit and to read books and they sale bibles and other things.

Have a Bless Day ~Nacy~

Thursday, January 6, 2011

Kids

Last night as I set to watch t.v. the kids (boys) where like omg!!! mom do we have to watch this stuff! I was like NO but your girl is on there that you like! -Boys- What girl are you talking about and how long will she be on there!  Ms T and maybe Ms K ( aka) B ,I guess just a little and maybe she will win something tonight. -Boys- OK I guess we can watch.

~Girls come in the room ~ OMG It's Johnny D.!!!!  I was like OK since when did you start calling him Johnny D.? Oh  mom since are new school. All the girls here call him that and it sounds a lot cooler!

 I said OK, and went back to the t.v. to finish watching People's Choice Awards and then When the TWILIGHT group came on there was all kinds of yelling going on.

I was like omg it sounds like a bunch of girls in here!  That was to funny to see the look on my
boy's face's !!!! There where so up set and yet the girls where laughing and crying at how the boys
face's looked.  There face's stay in a funky look for like 20 sec. in tell they started yelling at me.

MOM HOW COULD YOU!!! WE ARE NOT GIRLS WE JUST LIKE BELLA   aka (KRISTEN STEWART)!!! THANK YOU!!!

Now if that was not a picture moment / video if I had one.

My kids are something else and thank God I Love them or I would thank there was something wrong with them!

~Nacy~

Wednesday, January 5, 2011

A little about me

I'm a mother of wonderful  kids that range from 22 of age to 7 of age, You can say I was a busy mom.
I meet my Husband in school when I was 14 and a couple of yrs later I had are first son and the rest followed closed behind and there was a little (and I mean little gap) between the rest.

I was married for 22yrs and then I deiced it was time to go are ways.
 There was some meager issues in are home that ranged from being
abused by words and by his hands,my kids and I where done taken
it anymore when  one son got hurt real bad.

4 of my children stayed back home because of work and collage and friends.
They would stay also to make sure there father was OK after My other children
and I left the state to get away from him.

I so hated that part so much!!! I didn't like or want to leave them behind.
I know they will be up here a lot to visit us or If I'm lucky they will move
to Ohio where I live now.

My boys are missing there father a lot and had called him on the phone
and told him where we was living at and are address.

My Mind Went Crazy!!!!! I was so afraid of him com en here and hurting us
or demanding us to come back home with him.

He had come to Ohio in Nov.and was here for Christmas to see us all and
my other kids come along and it was a nice visit!

My visit with him was a pleasant one and he and I talked about things to clear
the air and to help heal hurt feelings and more.

He is getting help for his problems that he has and understands what happen
and what he did wrong.

My parents are living but not in good health! My other siblings are taken care of
them and they are doing a great job!!! I get calls from home all the time!!

THANK YOU GOD FOR PHONES!!!



I found a job in Ohio where I live now and I get to work from home and go
in to the office when I need things and to make the finale call on the stuff I do.

I so love working from home but there are days that I wish I didn't because the kids
are driven me nutty!

I have moved 2 times since I have been in Ohio and now I'm happy where I'm at and
it helps that I'm closer to a good friend that I have found since I came to this state.

She has taken me and my family in when we needed help and food..!!!!!!

                                                       LOVE YOU GINNY!!!!!

She has helped me get things in order on the last move, had things turned on and ready for me when we where done moving things in to my new home.

She can work fast !!! For someone I need of things....Thank You God for putting Ginny
in my life when you did!!! I would be lost with out her and all that she has done for me and my family.



Thank you for letting me try this out.......If you would like to know anything else please ask and I will
try to answer your questions.

Have a Bless Day

  Love  Nacy